Episode 220

EO: 220 A Mom's Journey through her premature son's devastating Necrotizing Enterocolitis with Haley

Published on: 1st May, 2026

The NEC Society

Key Takeaways:

Small gestures matter profoundly: Healthcare providers' thoughtful touches—photographs, decorations, keepsakes, and holiday participation—provide immeasurable comfort to grieving families and create lasting memories.

Trust your instincts: Pregnant individuals should never hesitate to contact their healthcare provider about unusual symptoms; early detection can be life-saving for both mother and baby.

The human element is irreplaceable: While medical expertise is essential, the emotional support and presence of compassionate caregivers create a healing environment that families remember forever.

Grief can fuel purpose: Parents who have lost children can honor their memory through advocacy and support work, transforming personal tragedy into meaningful change for other families.

Patient-family partnerships improve care: Including families in quality improvement initiatives brings essential perspective that helps healthcare providers communicate more effectively and compassionately.

Quotable Moments

"Those little keepsakes that we do have are so, so meaningful."

"Even when parents aren't saying it, they feel the gratitude. And so just because someone's not saying thank you, then just know that your work is so important."

"It keeps him alive for me. It keeps him here. And his spirit through mom is helping other families and other babies."

"If there's something that doesn't feel right, they would so much rather you call them and then get to say, There's nothing for you to worry about."

"It's not the worst thing in the world. And if anything, you get a lot of extra special attention and your babies are loved by so many other people as well."

Show Notes by Barevalue

No content or comments made in any TIPQC Healthy Mom Healthy Baby Podcast is intended to be comprehensive or medical advice. Neither healthcare providers nor patients should rely on TIPQC’s Podcasts in determining the best practices for any particular patient. Additionally, standards and practices in medicine change as new information and data become available and the individual medical professional should consult a variety of sources in making clinical decisions for individual patients. TIPQC undertakes no duty to update or revise any particular Podcast. It is the responsibility of the treating physician or health care professional, relying on independent experience and knowledge of the patient, to determine appropriate treatment.

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Healthy Mom Healthy Baby Tennessee
Doctors and guests discuss racial disparities, addiction and more in pregnancy and infant birth.
The Tennessee Initiative for Perinatal Quality Care (TIPQC) presents Healthy Mom Healthy Baby Tennessee. This podcast is a discussion with medical providers and other industry experts on all aspects of perinatal health.

Tennessee Initiative for Perinatal Quality Care (TIPQC) seeks to improve health outcomes for mothers and infants in Tennessee by engaging key stakeholders in a perinatal quality collaborative that will identify opportunities to optimize maternal and infant outcomes and implement data-driven provider- and community-based performance improvement initiatives. Visit www.tipqc.org for more information on our improvement work in Tennessee.

No content or comments made in any TIPQC Healthy Mom Healthy Baby Tennessee Podcast is intended to be comprehensive or medical advice. Neither healthcare providers nor patients should rely on TIPQC’s Podcasts in determining the best practices for any particular patient. Additionally, standards and practices in medicine change as new information and data become available and the individual medical professional should consult a variety of sources in making clinical decisions for individual patients. TIPQC undertakes no duty to update or revise any particular Podcast. It is the responsibility of the treating physician or health care professional, relying on independent experience and knowledge of the patient, to determine appropriate treatment.

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